Don’t be afraid to dump your terrible boyfriend or girlfriend. Your life will go on. You will love again. And maybe, as a bonus, your ex-partner’s genitals will shrivel up and fall off.<\/p>\n
Too many people stay in relationships with assholes because they either don’t want to be alone, think they really love this dickwad, get stuck in a routine\/vicious cycle, or some combination of all three. Hell, every other episode of Dr. Phil features\u00a0a couple\u00a0sad sacks who are terrible for each other, begging the good doctor for advice to save their relationship when it’s obvious to anyone with self respect these two should just BREAK UP ALREADY.<\/p>\n
But the non-asshole\u00a0doesn’t want to, because\u00a0he\/she thinks they’ve put too much time and\u00a0effort into the relationship to let it go. In the financial world, that’s called “sunk costs<\/a>,” and should not be used as a reason to keep investing in a losing endeavor in the hopes you might get your money back. The asshole only wants to stay in the relationship because he\/she enjoys the freedom of\u00a0walking all over\u00a0their partner; they haven’t sunk anything. In the military, we say you need to “cut sling load<\/a>” here.<\/p>\n In other words, your relationship will never be as good as it was at its peak. If you’re not getting what you want out of a relationship, don’t expect things to change if you just try harder. If you don’t enjoy being somebody’s bitch (male or female), then it’s time to move\u00a0on with your life, and don’t look back.<\/p>\n Here’s another excuse I hear from\u00a0a lot\u00a0from\u00a0people\u00a0in relationships with\u00a0terrible human beings: “But I looooooove<\/em> him!”\u00a0No, honey. You know<\/em> him. Knowing someone you sleep with really well and for a long time does not equal love. And just because you think you love someone doesn’t mean you should be together. You can love more than one person. Why stick with someone you’re not compatible with, or who treats you like shit? Life is too short for that nonsense.<\/p>\n Err on the side of dumping. Our planet hold approximately 7 billion people. If finding your soulmate is a “one in a million” occurrence,\u00a0there are literally 700 <\/em>million<\/em> other people in the world\u00a0you could find eternal happiness with.\u00a0Don’t settle for the first person who comes along to\u00a0make you smile or orgasm.<\/p>\n And for god’s sake, if you choose to stay with a raging douchcanoe,\u00a0don’t constantly\u00a0complain to your friends about your terrible boyfriend\/girlfriend! Nobody wants to hear it. As they say in the military: Take a shit or get off the pot.<\/p>\n Bottom line: Don’t love somebody who doesn’t love you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Don’t be afraid to dump your terrible boyfriend or girlfriend. Your life will go on. You will love again. And maybe, as a bonus, your ex-partner’s genitals will shrivel up and fall off. Too many people stay in relationships with assholes because they either don’t want to be alone, think they really love this dickwad, … <\/p>\n